What we long for most in life is happiness. But sometimes we spoil our energies to get it. Happiness is not easily reached, it is the result of the way of walking through life. However, rarely, on the course we managed to collide with two serious difficulties: some people are afraid of happiness and few know what they long for. If you want to defeat these two difficulties and be part of the distinguished group of happy people, we propose to follow four steps to achieve it. 1 Dismantle your armor We often fear being happy and sabotage our illusions because we think we do not deserve happiness and we are afraid to try to reach it. The simplest and most frequent way to protect and keep us safe is to build
Dismantle your armor We often fear being happy and sabotage our illusions because we think we don’t deserve happiness and we’re afraid to try to reach it. The simplest and most frequent way to protect and keep us safe is to build a steel armor in which we lock up our dreams and desires so that no one can reach them or destroy them. And of course, the result is that we never take a single step to make them come true. Accept that by suppressing your dreams you do not protect them, but prevent them from being realized. Make real efforts to make them reality. This decision can lead you to some disappointments and disengagements; but it will also lead to successes you would otherwise never achieve.
Connect with the desires of your heart. Make a "date" with yourself to explore what dreams and desires are that sleep at the bottom of your heart. Consider it and treat it as the most important quote of your life. If you consider it necessary, attend her with notebook and pen in hand. Note how much idea you can think of what you want, even if it seems absurd to you. When we have no idea what our goals are in life or know how to achieve them, it is a good idea to help the brain perform this exploration. The important thing is that you get connected with what your heart really longs for and that you get to glimpse the different paths by which you could reach it. This way, it will be easier for you to start taking the necessary steps to make that dream a reality. The efforts you make will fill your life with interest and will make you test the first honeys of happiness.
Recognize your own power. We are all mentally and physically capable of doing what we propose; the limits put them on our fears and our imagination. And we all deserve success, as we deserve love and happiness. Unfortunately, for many it is easier to say "I can't"; and we all usually believe in our own words. So to conquer happiness, begin to practice a positive attitude, to build confidence in yourself and to say "yes," to all the challenges life is posing for you. Soon enough you'll find out that he can do things you felt incapable of before.
Don't take precautions as pretexts Some fears are good. Being cautious and cautious is a virtue when driving a car, having young children and wanting to avoid any kind of accident. But when fear prevents you from launching in search of your dreams, it is time to get rid of it. In important decisions of life fears and pretexts must be set aside and courage must be imposed to take certain risks, because determination is needed to pursue and achieve great dreams. To be happy, it takes honesty to follow the right path in your achievement and not to spoil it with lie or selfishness.